Saying NO in relationships

I used to be a people pleaser and thought that it was my responsibility to make someone happy. When my friends asked me to hang out with them, I did not know how to say NO. Today, I told them I don’t want to come to the party next week. I was unapologetic and truthful. They accepted my answer wholeheartedly. It feels good! This photo is from a time when I performed in a play, which serves as a reminder that I can be the character I want to be without letting my past dictate how I feel.